thanks! Sorry for sounding aggressive!
I am old (27 soon), and i live in singapore, our wages are really low. My parents are retiring soon (not a pension state) and I can't in good conscience expect them to sell their house for my education, then where would they live. They just bought a small apartment costing more than $1m sgd (housing is expensive). I was ready to sign a private loan for UCLA but my parents said that if I failed to get a job in US, then they would have to repay the loan for me. Which looking at the economy, even UCLA won't help much in terms of getting a job in US. My own savings are only $20k (monthly wage less about $3k usd after deducting forced savings by the govt), because i repaid back my undergraduate loan.
i am depending on a masters to change my career, which is why i don't want to wait too long.
i know people outside US prob never heard of purdue, but based on my interactions with the school they do try their best for their prospective students, unlike some schools that are super slow in replying and even costs more. I would be ok with a moderate salary increment to about $6k a month since I won't be in any debt, that's more than enough to support myself.